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Hope Is The Cousin To Grief
“Hope is not logical. It always comes as a surprise, just when you think all hope is lost. Hope is the cousin to grief, and both take time: you can’t short-circuit grief, or emptiness, and you can’t patch it up with your bicycle tire tube kit. You have to take the next right action. Jesus would pray on the mountain, or hang out with the poor or imprisoned, or – as I’ll get to in a moment – start doodling in the sand.”
Anne Lamott in “Plan B: More Thoughts On Faith”
Resentment
“I’ve known for years that resentments don’t hurt the person we resent, but they do hurt and even sometimes kill us… unfortunately, change and forgiveness don’t come easily for me, but any willingness to let go inevitably comes from pain; and the desire to change changes you, and jiggles the spirit, gets to it somehow, to the deepest, hardest, most ruined parts. And then Spirit expands, because that is true in nature, and it drags along the body, and finally, the mind.”
Anne Lamott in “Plan B: Further Thougths On Faith”
Rubble and Friendships
“Rubble is the ground upon which our deepest friendships are built.”
Anne Lamott in “Plan B: Further Thoughts On Faith”
What A Mess We Are
“What a mess we are, I thought. But this is usually where any hope of improvement begins, acknowledging the mess. When I am well, I know not to mess with mess right away; I try to let silence and time work their magic. You don’t get far without grinding your teeth and heavy breathing. You noodle around, to warm up, and you meander, to find out if there are any improvisations that call to you.”
Anne Lamott in “Plan B: More Thoughts On Faith”
Faith, Doubt and Certainty
“I have a lot of faith. But I am also afraid a lot, and have no real certrainty about anything. I remembered something Father Tom had told me – that the opposite of faith is doubt, but certainty. Certainty is missing the point entirely. Faith includes noticing the mess, the emptiness and discomfort, and letting it be there until some light returns. Faith also means reaching deeply within, for the sense one was born with, the sense, for example, to go for a walk.”
Anne Lamott in “Plan B: Further Thoughts On Faith”
Faith
“Faith is not about how we feel, it is about how we live.”
Anne Lamott in “Plan B: Further Thoughts On Faith”
A World Turned Upside Down By Humanity’s Rebelling
“You live in a world turned upside down by humanity’s rebelling. Sometimes things don’t make sense. When you don’t let your daughter Sara play near the street, it doesn’t make sense to her. One day it will. God loves with a love greater than you can know. He doesn’t want anyone separated from him. But some will be. One day that will make sense.”
David Gregory in “Dinner With A Perfect Stranger”
